Finding True-Self

Life is circular, we find ourselves at a point that we believe is the peak, yet we fall around the circle and eventually hitting that so called peak yet again. And so it goes...

How do we find our true-selves amongst life's noise and chaos? Where do we find our calling? How do we find what we were made to do? Is this supposed to be a continual feat to the end?

I do believe that we are supposed to grow and learn our entire lives, so yes, I believe finding our true-selves is something we continue to do through all of our existence. Yet, I also believe that we need to find peace in the life stage we are in. This is hard.

Personally I am learning a lot. Learning how to make the most of my current life stage, to remember my blessings, to feel full and satisfied of what is here and now.

From the fullness of His grace we have

all received one blessing after another.

John 1:16

But the question is, how do I find my true-self? Or more than finding, is it creating our true-self? We need to cut ourselves out of the human mold and build ourselves from within — our answers are in our own individual hearts — the answer to our identity. The journey to find your true-self is probably the longest journey to embark upon but I wholeheartedly believe it's going to be well worth it.

So cheers for a chance to invent ourselves — our true-selves. Reach deep within and reconnect with yourself because that is where you'll find truth.

Let's become the most authentic version of ourselves.

Cactus Tacos

The very first time I had cactus was years ago visiting a friend in Arizona (of course, right?) and then was reminded of this treat while in Mexico. Upon my return, I told Husband that I ate cactus almost everyday — at this point *cue begging* Husband kindly asked that I make cactus tacos for him since he didn't join me in Mexico. Of course, being the kind, loving and caring wife I am...I made cactus tacos.

3 large cactus leaves

1/2 medium red onion, sliced

1/2 jalapeño, deseeded and diced (more if you like spicy!)

1 carrot stick, cut into matchsticks (I used about 5-6 baby carrots because that's what was on hand)

4 garlic cloves, minced

2 roma tomatoes, diced

1 avocado

1 lime

1 bunch of cilantro

Salsa, to serve

Use a sharp knife and carefully cut away any spikes on the cactus. When shopping for this ingredient, it may be called nopal or even prickly pear. Then, carefully cut the tough edge off each piece and set aside. Rinse the cactus under cool water to wash away any remaining blemishes.

Next, slice the red onion, dice the jalapeño, tomatoes, cut the carrot into thin matchsticks and mince the garlic. Lastly, rough chop the cilantro and slice the avocado and lime — set aside.

Drizzle some olive oil on a grill pan and turn the heat to high. Sear the cactus until they're cooked through and the edges are slightly blackened, about 2-3 minutes per side. Remove from the pan and set aside.

Drizzle a little more olive oil in a large sauté pan, then sauté the onions, carrot, garlic, jalapeño, and tomatoes over high heat for about 3-4 minutes or until the veggies are soft.

While the veggies are sautéing, dice the cactus. Add them into the sauté pan with the other veggies, stir and then remove from the heat.  

On the grill pan, warm the tortillas over medium heat until they're soft and pliable.

Fill each shell with the cactus mixture, an avocado slice, salsa, then garnish with cilantro and a lime wedge.

Have you ever eaten cactus? On a fun vacation or exotic spot? How was it prepared? Please share!

You don't have to cook fancy or complicated masterpieces — just good food from fresh ingredients.

Julia Child

New Perspectives from Mexico

You know how you always hear that life goes faster the older you get? Well, yea, I'd have to agree! Life has been absolutely flying in my neck of the woods. Let's see what's been happening....spending time with dear friends; a lovely housewarming party in our new home; crazy work schedules; and last but not least, an amazing eight day getaway in Mexico. There is something about having no connectivity to your routine world. I believe that God knows exactly what we need in the timing we need it — He was right, my soul needed time away from the routine life. Mexico was a time of fresh breaths and new perspectives on life. I arrived home last night but am already reflecting on my thankfulness.

While away I spent time soaking in the sun, received a relaxing massage in a beach cabana, ate way too much, spent quality time with my family and read a thought provoking and life changing book, Carry On, Warrior: Thoughts on Life Unarmed. The author, Glennon Doyle Melton, is authentic, hysterical, wise and really hits on life's basics that are sometimes just so hard to grasp or live-out day-to-day. In the end, it is all really simple, we just have to remember:

We belong to each other.

Love wins.

We can do hard things.

Life is brutiful (brutal + beautiful).

Anyway, this book deserves a second or maybe even a third read. But for now, I need to unpack and do my laundry — welcome back to the real world — I'm off to put these new perspectives to use. Happy Sunday all.